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How do you know when you’re home?

By Ryan Koch, Program Manager

How do you know when you’re home?  And how do you know when you are at work? 

These questions have been bubbling up for me since I started working at shelter. Learning this job is like learning a language. It is humbling, a little overwhelming. I am not yet conversant. I have lots to learn, and even more to unlearn. I hardly know how to describe the spirit of this place. One linguistic shortcut is to say that I work in a place that is the home of our residents.

And I thought that and said it quite a few times before I saw it animated.

One resident recently had some special guests. I did not know this resident’s name, or her story, but when I observed her kind young guests and how they were thrilled to be with her, I knew what was going on. Then, as she pulled together a meal for them, as she doted on them, my theory was confirmed: this woman was hosting her grandchildren.

It was an archetypal expression of love made possible by the existence of a home. Something utterly timeless and loving was underway. Surely this woman who was offering welcome was doing so in her home.

So much about this place looks familiar: meals; laundry; children; chores; laughter. And when this home is a place of hospitality, when it feels safe, nurturing and open, residents can heal and grow. They can access their inner wholeness.

Or as John O’Donohue says: “When one is at home in oneself, one is integrated and enjoys a sense of balance and poise. In a sense that is exactly what spirituality is: the art of homecoming.”

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New Monthly Handmade By Survivors Soap Club

Our new monthly Soap Club subscription makes a wonderful holiday gift for someone special!

Q: What makes the new Soap Club special?
A: Subscribers will receive a monthly bar of Handmade by Survivors soap, and each month’s soap will be different. Subscriptions are available for 3, 6, or 12 months, and every month’s soap ships for free. Staff and survivors on our handmade team are developing new soaps and even testing shampoo and lotion bars. We’re looking forward to sharing these new formulas with club members first.

Q: What will each month’s shipment include?
A: You’ll receive a small padded envelope in the mail. Inside you’ll find that month’s bar of soap, note card with details about the fragrance and ingredients, and a reminder about how many months remain in your subscription. All this will be packaged in a cute organza bag that can be reused to store jewelry or other little trinkets, or even filled with dried flowers to make little sachet packets.

Q: Will the first month’s soap arrive in time for the holidays?
A: If your subscription order is received by Friday, December 20 at 12 noon EST, the first month’s soap will be shipped to arrive before December 25. Future month’s soaps will ship the first Monday after the 15th of each month.

Q: Can I purchase a subscription as a gift for someone?
A: Absolutely. If you’re purchasing the subscription as a gift for someone, just let us know during the online checkout process. Use your address for billing, and the gift recipient’s address for shipping. There’s also a space to provide a short note for the gift recipient, and we’ll hand write your message on a card to be included with the recipient’s first soap shipment.

Q: Can I renew my subscription after the last month?
A: Yes, we’ll send you an email the month before your subscription ends with a link to renew.

Q: How does my Soap Club subscription benefit services for survivors of intimate partner abuse?
A. All proceeds from the sales of Handmade by Survivors products are reinvested in the effort. Our farm-based programming supports survivors as they establish safety and heal from the physical and emotional wounds of abuse. Making products has a special connection to our mission. The process provides collaborative work experience for survivors, while also generating resources for our organization. Every bar of soap is made in our commercial kitchen on the backside of the farm property that surrounds our emergency shelter.

Q: Anything else?
A. Subscription gifts have become really popular this year. I think it’s probably because it’s so much fun to come home, check the mail, and find a gift there waiting for you. And every bar of soap we make is Kentucky Proud.

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Let’s Talk about the GoodGiving Challenge

The 2019 GoodGiving Challenge happens Tuesday, December 3 – Monday, December 9.

Bluegrass Community Foundation coordinates this week of online giving to grow good in our community. And we’re so excited because that’s exactly what your generous good gift will do in the lives of survivors. Our staff made a video series to share how much your gift to the challenge matters.

Lots of wonderful matching and prize days are planned throughout the big week of giving, and these are listed over at this link.

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Colorful Days

My favorite days at shelter are those in which creativity is palpable. In and outside of the art world, what constitutes art is always up for debate. Yet to me, the way in which my brain processes the visual information relayed by my eyes is by default creative and almost always a form of art—Say, my shadow, as it lays across a snow-speckled patch of grass, or the coffee stains on my predilect mug. 

Our 40-acre farm and shelter are imbued with art and creativity everywhere you look. Whether a herd of children comes running into your office searching for empty boxes to construct makeshift guitars or an ingenious resident borrows your office stapler to masterfully craft a rug, each day at GreenHouse17 is a colorful surprise. 

As soon as you walk into our commercial kitchen, senses are stimulated by the scent of dried flowers, marble-like patterns appear as essential oils are mixed into soap batches, and beautifully designed labels are carefully placed on each and every handmade by survivors product. 

As I move into my second quarter of service here at GreenHouse17, I am taking a moment to acknowledge the exuberant moments I’ve been a part of. Today, I am grateful for the opportunity to spend a year in community with survivors and advocates, children and adults, who despite having their own pain to deal with, continuously support one another without hesitation. 

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Gratitude at GreenHouse17

Domestic Violence Awareness Month. #GivingTuesday. Good Giving Challenge. Holiday Mailing. Holiday Gift Drives. Holiday Store. It is a busy time of year for us, and really, all nonprofits are feeling it. On average, 30% of a nonprofit’s annual budget is donated in November and December! Most nonprofits begin planning their year-end strategy in October. Us included! Which coincides nicely with our primary month to raise as much awareness as possible about domestic violence and the services we provide. It is full steam ahead 

But just like how many of us go from Halloween straight to Christmas – I’m talking to you Hallmark Channel and local radio stations – without truly stopping for Thanksgiving, those in the nonprofit world can easily skip, or more like postpone, the season of gratitude until January. It is also when I think of those working in the retail industry, having to work through the chaos of Black Friday (which starts on Thanksgiving for many stores!) through Christmas. We could all take time to breathe in gratitude this Thanksgiving season.  

So I took a moment away from the chaos, from the to do lists, from the toll of doing this meaningful work and wandered around shelter, asking folks what they are thankful for… 

“Working for a place like [GreenHouse17]” – Chris, Crisis Advocate 

“Caring, non-judgmental and compassionate people.” – Survivor 

“A warm bed to sleep in on cold nights.” – Mary, Development Manager 

“Health Insurance.” – Kristin, Shelter Living Specialist 

“The grace of God for answering my prayers. Being here [at GreenHouse17] which is one of my answered prayers. And other places that help those in need. The kind people in the world. And of course, my son.” – Survivor 

“My family.” – Nate, Youth Advocate 

“Boone, the neighboring farm dog.” – Manuela, Americorps VISTA 

“The fulfillment and purpose that my job gives me.” – Tiffany, Shelter Living Specialist 

“That I’m at peace and my health is good.” – Mike, Maintenace Specialist 

“GreenHouse17 and the work they do. It changes lives and it’s changed my perspective on life.” – Heather, Finance & Administration Assistant 

“Not having to sleep with one eye open.” – Survivor 

“The classes and groups that GreenHouse17 offers.” – Survivor 

“Modern medicine.” – Aimee, Finance & Administration Assistant 

And for me, what am I thankful for? I am thankful that I can come to work every day to a 40-acre farm that looks just as peaceful covered in snow as it does covered in beautiful flowers. I am thankful to work in a place full of beautiful people that get excited for morning dance class and afternoon crafting group. I am thankful to watch kids and moms grow throughout their time here and offer more laughter and light into the world. I am thankful to be a part of a community that cares for each other and provides safety from a harsh world.  

Now I encourage you to take the time over the next couple weeks to deeply think about what it is in life that you are thankful for. Because everyone has something. And a little more gratitude might make these cold nights a little warmer! 

Happy Thanksgiving y’all!!  

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Define American

Many of us use words without considering their origin and effect on others. Whether we are aware of it or not, the vocabulary we hear and use on a daily basis affects both our perception of those seemingly different from us, and of ourselves. Think of that time your grandpa bursted out “retard” to refer to someone with differing mental abilities, or perhaps when you refered to an undocumented immigrant as an “illegal.”

 Language shapes all aspects of life, yet more often than not, we disregard the fact that words are powerful weapons. We allow things like our immediate surroundings, the media, biases, and superiority complexes shape our negative opinions about others; we embrace and spread false stories about marginalized peoples without considering the repercussions of our actions.

 Two weeks ago, I had the privilege of representing GreenHouse17 at the inaugural Define American Summit in the city of Louisville. There, I met individuals from all walks of lifestudents, journalists, an actress from Orange is the New Blackwho came together to engage in conversations about what it means to be American.

 We discussed how the prevalent narrative in our nation misrepresents, distortions, and demonizes the immigrant identity. As our friends, neighbors, and colleagues, immigrants deserve to be depicted as the complex and diverse individuals they are. Criminals, illegals, illiterate, moochers are simply fallacious terms that need to be both questioned and replaced. 

As an excerpt from the Summit’s program reads, “in order to re-imagine American identity in the future, we must come together to tell America’s whole story.” 

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Muchos de nosotros hablamos sin pensar ni un segundo en la procedencia o efecto de las palabras que empleamos. Sea o no intencional, el vocabulario que escuchamos y utilizamos a diario afecta la manera en que percibimos tanto a los demás como a nosotros mismos. Quizás un día tu abuelito utilizó “retrasado mental” para referirse a alguien con habilidades diferentes, o quizá mientras hablabas con tus amigos, utilizaste el término “ilegal” para referirte a miembros de la comunidad inmigrante.

Nuestro lenguaje forma todos los aspectos de nuestras vidas. Sin embargo, la mayoría de nosotros mostramos indiferencia ante la noción que toda palabra es un arma de doble filo. Permitimos que nuestro alrededor, los medios de comunicación, nuestra parcialidad, y complejos de superioridad moldeen nuestras opiniones negativas acerca de los demás; abrazamos y divulgamos historias falsas acerca de personas ya marginadas por nuestra sociedad sin considerar las repercusiones de nuestras acciones.

La semana antepasada tuve el privilegio de representar a GreenHouse17 en la cumbre inaugural de la organización Define American en la ciudad de Louisville. Allí, individuos de todo tipo de trayectosestudiantes, periodistas, una actriz de la serie Orange is the New Black— se reunieron para entablar conversaciones acerca de lo que significa ser Americano.

Discutimos como el narrativo prevalente de nuestra nación tergiversa, distorsiona, y demoniza la identidad del inmigrante. Como nuestros amigos, vecinos, y colegas, los inmigrantes merecen ser representados como los individuos complejos y diversos que son. Criminales, ilegales, analfabetos, y gorrones son simplemente términos inadecuados que necesitan ser tanto cuestionados como remplazados.

Como estaba escrito en el programa de la cumbre, “Para poder re imaginar la identidad Americana en el futuro, debemos unirnos para contar la historia completa de América.”

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Speak My Name

We speak these names to remember their lives and call for an end to the violence. 

Please listen for one minute as we speak the names of 26 victims killed by intimate partners in Kentucky from September 1, 2018 – August 31, 2019. Speak My Name is a project of the Kentucky Coalition Against Domestic Violence. This is not an exhaustive list. Includes only victims about whom the coalition is aware through media outlets and domestic violence programs.

 

Trayona McDowell, 18, Jefferson County
Ja’Lynn Ragsdale, 19, McCracken County
Megan Leigh Hough, 34, Jefferson County
Monika Roberts, 35, Henderson County
Dana Hodges, 50, Jefferson County
Rhonda Laws, 51, Graves County
Brittney Silvers, 27, Christian County
Paige Murphy, 28, Leslie County
Anna Noble, 54, Breathitt County
Debbie Forrest, 42, Christian County
Mandy Lemay, 27, Johnson County
Rebecca Lancaster, 49, Carter County
Tera Todd, 37, Calloway County
Tracy A. Riggsbee, 40, Warren County
Cherie Turner, 34, Hardin County
Yunelsy Abdala Ramos, 35, Jefferson County
Geri D. Johnson, 29, Whitley County
Kamari Snowden, 28, Jefferson County
Chloe Randolph Abdikadir, 20, Henderson County
Louise Cecil, 81, Trimble County
Vicki S. Conner, 57, Whitley County
Judy Stalcup, 60, McCracken County
Darcy Markwell, 47, Muhlenberg County
Donna J. Hollon, 54, Franklin County
Jennifer Bennett, 42, Taylor County
Lorie L. Smith, 48, Warren County

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Shelter Renovation Complete

Please join us on Tuesday, October 15 to celebrate the completed renovation of our region’s emergency shelter for survivors.


10 – 11 am

Re-dedication Ceremony
with Lexington Mayor Gorton and special guests,
followed by tours of the shelter.

11 am – 2 pm
Open House
drop-in event with tours
for service partners and friends of the mission

RSVP with names of guests and event (ceremony or open house) to 859-519-1922 or rsvp@greenhouse17.org. Please include a note if you need driving directions to our shelter.

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Hello from Manuela


Hello folx! My name is Manuela Hincapie Vidal and I am thrilled to begin my fourth AmeriCorps service term, this time as an AmeriCorps VISTA Communications Specialist here at GreenHouse17; my one-year service term is made possible by the Corporation for National and Community Service as well as the Homeless and Housing Coalition of Kentucky.

With all formalities set aside, I would like to introduce myself more accordingly. As I walked through Berea College’s forests this summer—picking berries, rejoicing in the magnificent scent of sassafras, getting stung by yellow jackets, and of course, working hard with the forestry crew to maintain the trails—I began to think through the many possibilities for life after graduation.

Having spent seven months living in Malaysia—and other nearby countries—prior to completing my final semester at Berea, I was physically distanced from my college bubble but energetically attuned to its thriving community. Whether I was sitting at a venue in Thailand and Take me Home, Country Road suddenly came on the radio or I took it upon myself to teach my Thai roommate Appalachian expressions, my heart grew tender at the thought of Kentucky, a place that has slowly but surely began to feel like home.

Although I loved my time abroad and would like to continue traveling, upon returning to Berea and sifting through my thoughts amidst forests, I realized that I wasn’t ready to leave Kentucky just yet. I am excited about my transition to the city of Lexington as well as my commitment to building capacity for a phenomenal organization.  Through the art of written and visual storytelling, I will support GreenHouse17’s mission of ending intimate partner abuse in Kentucky.

Random Facts:

  • Originally from Colombia
  • Grew up in Rhode Island
  • Got certified as a wildland firefighter at age 21
  • Like to think of myself as an imperfect minimalist and environmentalist
  • Hold B.A in Peace and Social Justice and Studio Art (painting focus)

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Community Partner Spotlight: Maple Tree Gallery

With the hustle and bustle of city life in Lexington, it is always nice to get out and about into the smaller, more relaxed towns that we serve. And Danville is particularly close to our hearts with three staff and one boardmember having roots there.  

Therefore, we are very excited to announce that our Handmade by Survivors products will be available for sale there! 

One of the loveliest places in Danville, without a doubt, is the Maple Tree Gallery. It’s not just a gallery and it’s not just a gift shop, as it might appear through the large streetside windows.  

Long-time native and shop owner, Julie Nelson, also provides custom framing, lamp repair and UK swag if the season is right alongside friendly, make-you-feel-at-home customer service.  

And who could forget about Rosebud, the gentlest store dog ever! This sweet boxer happily trots up to all customers with a sniff and a smile.  

So if you’re in the area come say hi to Julie and Rosebud and maybe even stock up on soaps, candles and lip balms. All while supporting survivors of intimate partner abuse in the Bluegrass.  

We always appreciate the continued support of our amazing communities.  

Danville Trivia Tidbit: Danville was the first capital of Kentucky and where the first constitution of Kentucky was written in 1792.  

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