Annual Report

House Bill 38

Mary Ann’s Story Continues. Read the first part here.

After their phone call, Mary Ann and Representative Tipton began drafting legislation to hold abusers accountable. Their work would become known as HB 38 during this year’s Kentucky General Assembly.

She received another call from the congressman after the bill was filed. He asked Mary Ann to share her testimony with the House Standing Committee Judiciary.

Although nervous, Mary Ann remembers feeling supported from the moment she arrived at the Capitol Annex. She bravely shared her story and called for change.

“Today, I stand here with the hope that this bill will pass with essential provisions to escalate repeated domestic violence offenses to felony charges.”

The committee voted to pass the bill to the House of Representatives, which unanimously voted to approve.

This moved the bill to the Senate Standing Committee Judiciary. Mary Ann testified for a second time, inspiring the committee to move the bill to the full Senate.

She returned to Frankfort a few weeks later to witness the Senate’s vote and received a standing ovation from the crowd. Governor Beshear signed the legislation into law this March.

Per Kentucky Revised Statutes, the violation of an order of protection by a person convicted of two or more previous violations in five years is a Class D felony, if the third or subsequent violation uses or attempts to use physical force or threatens physical harm. The protected person can differ across violations.

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21 Years

Mary Ann’s Story

“I have reclaimed my strength and my voice.”

On the morning of December 18, 2022, I was jolted awake by my now ex-husband, only to find myself being brutally attacked.

I was hit in the head with a phone, my face busted, knocked to the ground, held down by the back of my neck, and told I was going to be killed if I said anything or moved.

I lay there, my mind racing with a single thought. I don’t want to die. The man staring at me was not the man I had married. I knew I had to run.

I broke free and sprinted out the door. I ran up the driveway, down the road, and finally ducked behind a truck. My hands were shaking as I dialed 911.

He was arrested that night, but less than two weeks later, he was released on bond with an ankle monitor. I was granted a temporary Emergency Protective Order (EPO) until our court hearing on January 10, 2023.

On that day, the court issued a three-year no contact Domestic Violence Order (DVO).

The order meant nothing to him. He wasted no time violating it, calling and leaving 23 messages within five days. The ankle monitor offered no real protection–he had already decided he was coming for me.

As a survivor of domestic violence, I continue to endure the ongoing actions of my abuser every day. My ex-husband has violated the protective order against him more than 50 times, yet each offense has been classified as a misdemeanor.

When does it stop?

I reached out to James Tipton, my state representative, and left a voicemail about my situation. He called me the next day…

Mary Ann’s phone call with Representative Tipton would make history. Her story continues here.

This is only part of Mary Ann’s story, in her own words, shared with permission.

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Justice for Families

Improving Safety for Children and Parents

A new federal grant will strengthen our community’s safe visitation and exchange services for children.

The three-year award was received through a competitive application for Grants to Support Families in the Justice System, commonly known as the Justice for Families Program. Only 24 communities in the nation were selected for funding last year.

“This is a major investment that responds to a critical need in our communities,” says Scott Lancaster, manager of our safe exchange and visitation program. “The funding helps stabilize the operation of our existing services while expanding partnerships to support children and their parents.”

The Justice for Families Program is dedicated to improving the civil and criminal justice system for families with a history of intimate partner abuse and other violence. Guiding principles of the program include equal regard for the safety of children and adults through respectful and fair interactions.

A team united in these goals will bring varied experience and perspective to the effort. Partners include the Board of Directors for the Lexington Domestic and Sexual Violence Prevention Coalition, Georgetown Police Department, and Boyle County and Mercer County Family Court.

“Children deserve safety and predictability. I’m proud that our organization was able to ensure continuation of safe visitation and exchange services in the region seven years ago and honored the program has received federal support.”

The Grants to Support Families in the Justice System program is authorized by the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) of 2013 per 34 U.S. Code § 12464. Neither the funder nor its components operate, control, are responsible for, or necessarily endorse this program, including, without limitation, the program content, technical infrastructure, policies, and any services or tools provided.

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Gray’s Groundbreaking Women

Hooray for Gray’s!

Gray’s employee driven cooperative, Groundbreaking Women, demonstrates their leadership through action and impact.

They have volunteered their time to organize the emergency shelter, collect gifts for the holidays, and wear so much purple to raise awareness during Purple Thursday and Domestic Violence Awareness Month.

Last year, they also undertook an archiving project, organizing documents from our early years as a nonprofit. This initiative preserves our history while honoring the strides made toward safety and empowerment.

“We’re so grateful for the support of the Groundbreaking Women,” shares Corissa, our external relations director. “This is a group that exemplifies partnership and community. They get things done!”

Through every effort, Gray’s Groundbreaking Women embody the values of collaboration and compassion, making a lasting difference for our organization and survivors of intimate partner abuse.

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Blood Center Partnership

Healing Together

Donors at select Kentucky Blood Center locations could choose to give the value of their thank you gifts to our organization during the Healing Together campaign in November and December.

The partnership raised an incredible $7,500 to support services for survivors.

“We love partnerships that allow our generous blood donors the chance to help another great local nonprofit. Far too many families are impacted by intimate partner abuse and we’re thrilled to be able to support the work our friends at GreenHouse17 do every day to assist people in need at a very critical time,” says Mandy Brajuha, VP of external relations at the Kentucky Blood Center.

The community’s generosity made a significant impact, contributing to lifesaving blood donations while also providing critical funds to support survivors.

“Although our missions are accomplished in different ways, both of our organizations are committed to nurturing lives and need community support to be successful,” adds Darlene Thomas, our executive director.

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Cassie’s Story

“Accepting help was one of the most challenging, yet life-changing decisions we made.”

I was raised in an upper middle-class family surrounded by support and stability. When I married, I believed I was building a life with a partner who was committed to his sobriety and helping others through his profession as a clinical social worker.  

On the outside, everything seemed ideal. Behind closed doors, the reality was much different. He made the choice to return to using drugs and everything began to unravel.  

It wasn’t just the physical abuse – chairs being thrown at us or being threatened with knives. My reality was constantly being twisted. Gaslighting made me question my memory, instincts, and sanity. We walked on eggshells. 

My children were at a point where suicide seemed a viable option, coming to me saying, ‘what if we just all died, and it wouldn’t be so bad anymore.’ That was the wake-up call for me to finally do something. 

With several late-night calls to the hotline at GreenHouse17, we planned and filed an emergency protective order. Accepting help was one of the most challenging, yet life-changing decisions we made.  

My advocate was there the day of the court appearance. She held my hand during all of it and walked me to my car.  

After 23 years of marriage, my children and I finally found the courage to seek help. For too many years I had been trapped in a cycle of fear, silence, and self-doubt. 

I am proud to say my children and I have been free from abuse for the last seven years. It hasn’t been an easy road, but it was worth every step. 

I have amazing kids, and they make me so proud. My oldest graduated with honors and went on to receive her master’s degree and my youngest is a sophomore with a full ride scholarship, pursuing their dreams. I have found a job I enjoy, and, after all these years, I am in a healthy relationship built on trust and respect. Our story is one of survival, resilience, and healing 

This is only part of Cassie’s story, in her own words, shared with permission.

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Heart & Craft

“We are all handmade, we are not meant to be perfect, we are just meant to try to be our best selves possible.”

Every product from our farm tells a story and is crafted with care by survivors reclaiming their lives.

“I know whoever purchases our products will enjoy them as much as I’m liking being a part of making them.”

What began as simple crafts made in microwaves at the shelter has grown to be a line of handmade products enjoyed by supporters across the nation.

Bekah, an advocate with focus on making products, explains, “Women often neglect self-care, especially in abusive relationships where it’s discouraged. Our crafting sessions offer a safe space to rediscover and nurture creativity.”

The first soaps created during the early years—Fresh Start, Soothing Serenity, Sweet Harmony, and Awaken Joy—are still made today. Soothing Serenity was formulated by two women who loved the scent of rosemary.

“Survivors help every step of the way. Each product is linked to someone’s story. It’s not just about the product, but the person behind it,” Bekah says.

Your purchase of Handmade by Survivors products supports creativity and collaboration to foster healing after abuse. And every item smells so good! They also make wonderful holiday gifts for friends near and far. Consider a Hope Box of handmade products for your corporate gift-giving this season.

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Cosplay for a Cause Foundation

Cosplay for a Cause Foundation brings children’s favorite characters to life, providing moments of joy and inspiration.

Founded by Elizabeth Redding, Lee Davis, and Greg Frederick in 2020, the foundation supports nonprofits through volunteering, fundraising events, and uses cosplay to uplift and support children.

Each year members select a local organization to support. Through fundraisers and outreach efforts, including character meet and greets, Cosplay for a Cause has shown immense support for survivors.

Member Theresa Smith says, “It is an honor and privilege for me to create joy and laughter, allowing both children and adults to forget their hardships for a brief moment. Through this process, our members find solace and healing as well.”

The kids living at the shelter have met Bluey, Mirabel, Luisa, Cinderella, Mario, Captain America, Big Bird, and more.

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Tania’s Story

“We believe this is the only person that is going to save us when they are the person that is ruining us.”

I realized that’s why I got targeted, because they look for people that are merciless to themselves. The strong woman that I am would never have allowed that to happen.

But it’s not about strength. It’s not about knowledge. It’s not about being intelligent or unintelligent.

This person strips everything from you. It does not happen overnight. It is a process. By the time they get you to your most vulnerable, you are alone, because they’ve made sure of that.

Even if you want help, even if you have people in your life, you don’t know how to articulate to these people that you need help. You’re worried about this person hurting your family, hurting people that you care about.

I made a choice to get out. It doesn’t matter when you make that choice. It doesn’t matter why you make that choice. Whatever gets you out of that situation. That’s all that matters.

There were times in the shelter I was a hot mess, but you all saw more in me. That’s what you need. You need people around you that see something great. It was me saying I was worthy of that.

I want my daughters to see that there is better in life, and they don’t have to go down my path. They can go a different way because they are worthy.

That’s why I call them my princesses because I want them to know that they are royalty. It doesn’t matter where they grow up or if we have a lot of money. Your heart and your mind are what matters.

This is only part of Tania’s story, in her own words, shared with permission.

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A Clean Start

“I endured every form of abuse from a partner for several years.”

Paige Swope holds the Ms. Kentucky Festivals 2023 title, and her platform is awareness for intimate partner abuse.

“I endured every form of abuse from a partner for several years,” she shares. “Women, and especially children, who are suffering through a domestic violence relationship lay heavy on my heart.”

Paige began her support for our organization during this year’s Shop & Share event in February. “It brought tears to my eyes seeing how much support the community was giving.”

The experience inspired Paige to do more. She recently organized an online donation drive for self-care items to support survivors and their children living at the shelter.

“There were many times I went days without brushing my teeth, combing my hair, or showering,” she remembers. “I want women and children to never have to worry about having access to basic hygiene necessities.”

“It took me years to physically and mentally heal from the abuse I endured, and now that I am free, I want nothing more than to be able to give back and contribute to such an important organization.”

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