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Handmade by Survivors: Cold Process Soap Making

Your purchase of our Handmade by Survivors products will help victims of intimate partner violence as they establish safety, heal from the physical and emotional wounds of abuse, and grow strong as survivors.

Five of our new soaps we are launching this season are cold processed, so we thought it’d be great to share with y’all some of the benefits that come with this process. Cold processed soaps are considered one of the most traditional forms of soap making. Due to not using high temperatures to cure, this process is better for more natural and raw ingredients. Cold processed soaps are also best for optimal moisturization and allow us to be a bit more creative with the soap aesthetic and our shaping techniques.  

The soaps made a lot of difference. They’re all different and all beautiful.It doesn’t seem like any two are the same. And there’s a lot like the survivors, women and men of domestic violence. We all are similar in some kind of form, but we all have our differences to be celebrated.. – Jewell

5 Benefits of Cold Process Soap:

 

1. The Creamy Feel

Cold process soap made with all-natural ingredients like plant oils and butters creates a creamy lather for deep moisturization. Unlike other soap types, cold process versions penetrate deep into into the skin to help minimize dry itchy skin.

2. Powerfully Natural

The benefits of natural soap making ingredients like coconut oil, shea butter and olive oil can be lost through the heating process in hot process soap techniques; the cold process method ensures these natural ingredients are better preserved.

3. Intensive Scent

Cold process soaps are often fragranced with natural essential oils, like lavender and jasmine, or fragrance oils like chocolate or apple. Because cold process soap takes a number of weeks to fully cure, the scent intensifies over time.

4. Luxurious Lather

Unlike hot process soap, alternatives made through the cold process method can be skilfully whipped for the lightest touch, even floating on water! Cold process soap has the ability to create incredible lather to allow a truly luxurious bathing sensation.

5. Creatively Colorful

Cold process soap making techniques include a level of artistry, with many soaps decorated with swirls, layers of color and all sorts of interesting designs. Some are mixed with natural ingredients for texture while others have a top layer of herbs for an artistic final touch.

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Handmade by Survivors: New this Season

Your purchase of our Handmade by Survivors products will help victims of intimate partner violence as they establish safety, heal from the physical and emotional wounds of abuse, and grow strong as survivors.

This season we are excited to launch six new products. Five of which are cold processed soaps, with both original scent blends and a couple new ones too! Our final addition this season is our new Dissent lip balm inspired by the late Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg.

The program allowed me to take a break from my reality in two ways. The first way, making the products was a relief. It was great to come here and not be a victim, not be scorned, not be angry, not be hurt, but be creative and experiment. And secondly, it was a lifeline. At the time, I was in a very sunken deep place. And this was something that gave me some kind of purpose, or drive, a reason to get up. There were a lot of days that I came here and I had contemplated not coming for at least an hour or so before I got here and realized this is where I needed to be and left feeling vindicated and refreshed. – Jewell

Winter 2020 New Products:

Benevolence, one of our beautiful new cold process soaps, blends essential oils of hyssop with lemon and lavender. Hyssop is an evergreen flowering plant with a sweet smell that’s been used for purification throughout historyA sacred scent to cleanse body and mind.

 

An invitation to nurture self-care, Clarity is one of our beautiful new cold process soaps. Let the notes of lavender and rose enchant you.

 

One of our new beautiful cold process soaps, New Perspective smells like a walk in the woods. Be inspired to view things a little differently with earthy fragrances of essential oils of patchouli and frankincense.

 

Inhale peace, and exhale chaos with Peace of Mind, one of our beautiful new cold process soaps. The warm blend of cinnamon and bergamot will nourish you inside and out.

 

Rest and settle back into oneself with Remembrance, one of our beautiful new cold process soaps. The blend of lavender and rosemary essential oils cultivate a sense of calm and relaxation. A perfect way to wash away the day.

Dissent is the perfect lip balm to wear in all places where decisions are being made. Unscented, untinted, and made with natural ingredients to soften and nourish dry lips.

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24-Hour Hotline

You deserve to be supported.

Our 24-hour crisis hotline is answered every day of the year. You will speak to a compassionate Certified Domestic Violence Advocate who wants to support your specific needs.

800.544.2022

Together, we can develop a safety plan that meets the specific needs of you and your children. Find emergency shelter with us or a partner shelter. Make plans for an advocate to accompany you to upcoming court appointments. Share information about nearby support groups.

You might not be ready to leave or want to know more to support a friend. That’s ok. We are here to listen, too. Please call us if you or someone you know is being harmed.

You deserve healing.

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Life at Shelter

Our Emergency Shelter is surrounded by 40-acres of beautiful farmland in rural Fayette County.

The 17,000 sq ft shelter facility includes a large dining room, art room, sewing room, children’s play areas, and support group meeting rooms. A large covered front porch is lined with rocking chairs, while the back porch overlooks a playground for the children.

“No one told me how special this place is when they tell you to take your kids to a shelter. The first thing you think of is a soup kitchen with people lying all over the floor. If I had known then what I know now, I would have packed my kids up a long time ago.” – Daisy, Former Shelter Resident 

We grow produce for healthy meal preparations and lots of lovely flowers on the shelter’s farm. If you like to keep busy and enjoy nature, you can help on the farm if you choose.

Benches and seating areas are scattered about the property, with one providing a little outdoor library. We’re lucky to have two friendly horses that live in the fields on our property. And a few country cats — all named Morris — have made our property their home, too.

You deserve safety and healing.

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Speak my name

Today we ask you to listen for one minute as we speak these names. Each name is a life taken by domestic homicide related to intimate partner abuse in Kentucky from September 2019 – August 2020.

Although Domestic Violence Awareness Month is coming to a close, we will nurture lives harmed until the violence ends.

Savannah Spurlock, 22, Madison County
Beth Dykes Bonzo, 45, Pulaski County
Angella Hale, 48, Marshall County
Ella Diebolt Jackson, 48, Madison County
Donna Eldridge, 30, Pulaski County
Amanda Berry, 33, Jefferson County
Murrel Pruitt, 64, Monroe County
Elaine Castillo, 33, Fayette County
Sheena Baxter, 32, Scott County
Patricia Murphy, 67, Daviess County
Jacklyn West, 58, Daviess County
Melissa Back, 36, Kenton County
Keilee Sparks, 29, Greenup County
Jodi L. Stapleton, 35, Pike County
Nina Hunt, 42, Marion County
Kodie Patrick, 24, Boyd County
Rebekah Wortman, 60, Jefferson County
Jobeth Butcher Bailey, 36, Lawrence County
Karleigh Miller, 19, Jefferson County
Jeannie Vanzant, 39, Knott County
Peggy Vanwinkle, 52, Jackson County
Karen Rae Greenup, 57, Fayette County
Angel D. Marcum, 26, Fayette County
Nichole Merrell, 30, Hopkins County
Tessa Slone, 49, Knott County
Susan Taylor, 42, Jackson County

Speak My Name is a project of the Kentucky Coalition Against Domestic Violence. This is not an exhaustive list. Only victims about whom the coalition is aware through media outlets and domestic violence programs.

Breathe in courage. Exhale Fear.

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The Heart Space

Step back and settle in with this Body Orientation and Scan Meditation practice from the Heart Space. To turn inward we must first cultivate a deeper sense of where we are. Slow down so you’re better able to show up.

Tune in weekly during the month of October for a new recording on the Heart Space, a digital sound archive of trauma-sensitive resources dedicated to serving those who are healing from abuse.  Listen on Spotify, Pocket CastsGoogle Podcast, and more.  

Breathe in courage. Exhale Fear.

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Safety Planning

This is a list of general safety considerations if you or someone you know is being harmed. 

 

Every situation is different. Trust your instincts. If something on this list seems like it could cause danger for you, don’t do it. Remember you can call our 24-hour crisis line at 800.544.2022 anytime, any day. Our advocates are available to support you. Together, we can tailor a safety plan to meet your specific needs.

  • If you are in immediate danger, call 911.
  • Use caution if you share a computer or mobile phone with the abuser. It’s impossible to completely clear your browser history. If someone wants, they can monitor the website your visit and the calls you make. If this is a concern, please consider using a computer or phone of a trusted friend.
  • Tell a trusted friend or family member. Abuse thrives in silence and isolation. Telling someone about your situation may be difficult, but taking positive action to end the abuse is easier with support.
  • If you have children, discuss an age-appropriate safety plan for when you are not with them.
  • Choose a code word to use with your children, family, friends, and neighbors so they will know when to call 911 for you.
  • If you have a protective order, keep a copy of the document with you at all times. Make a copy for a trusted friend or family member to keep for you.
  • If you don’t have a protective order, consider filing for one. We can help you with this process. Even though a protective order is not a guarantee of safety, serious consequences for the abuser can result in greater safety for you.
  • Decide and plan where you will go if you need to flee quickly. Practice how to get out of your home safely. If you are in fear for your physical safety, go to the home of a friend, relative, neighbor, or to a shelter for victims of intimate partner abuse.
  • Open a savings account in your own name. Ask a trusted friend or family member if you can use their address for mailings.
  • Prepare a bag with copies of important documents, extra medicine, clothing, and some money. Leave this bag with someone you trust.
  • Decide if you will inform your employer and colleagues at work about your abuser. If possible, provide them with a photograph of this person.
  • Consider having someone escort you to your car or wait with you at the bus stop.

Breathe in courage. Exhale Fear.

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Trivia Night

Join us for a fun night of trivia on Monday, October 26 at 7 pm.

All questions will be related to domestic violence in popular culture — books, films, music, and sports. But don’t worry, nothing will be graphic or require content warnings. We simply want to raise awareness about the issues. And it’s FREE to play! We only need your name and email address.

Look for a zoom meeting link in your email on the morning of the event, so you can join when game play begins later that night. We will be using Crowdspurr for actual game play, so it might be easiest for folks to join the zoom meeting from a desktop or laptop computer and have a smartphone or tablet available for playing.

And we have prizes! Prizes include a Hope Box, GreenHouse17 T-Shirt, and a Support Survivors Face Mask.

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The Heart Space

Get comfortable and reflect during this 5-minute loving kindness meditation from the Heart Space. May you be happy, may you be well, may you be safe, may you be peaceful and at ease.

Tune in weekly during the month of October for a new recording on the Heart Space, a digital sound archive of trauma-sensitive resources dedicated to serving those who are healing from abuse.  Listen on Spotify, Pocket CastsGoogle Podcast, and more.  

Breathe in courage. Exhale Fear.

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