Behind the scenes, a new generation of advocates reflect on their first year of supporting survivors, sharing perspectives that have shaped their dedication to the mission.

“I wish more people understood that leaving an abuser is often a complex process,” Violine explains, “It’s not simply a matter of walking away.”

“You can never know what someone is going through based on how they present themselves,” adds Katie. “Survivors are going through unimaginable hardship and still managing to carry on with their lives, showing up to work and parenting their kids.”

“I’ve learned from survivors that strength can look different for everyone,” says Violine. “Their resilience and courage have taught me the importance of listening without judgment and meeting people where they are.”

“I didn’t recognize the experiences in my relationship as abuse until we talked about domestic violence during a criminal justice course in college,” shares Kaylynn. “We are the same as survivors and could be in their situation one day. The best we can do is be a voice for them for the time being, while they’re vulnerable.”

“It’s the little things that keep me motivated,” says Katie. “It’s not every day we’re getting someone the keys to their new apartment. But giving someone a gas card or helping them enroll their child into affordable daycare, that really takes some of the stress off.”

“Healing is difficult. When I was younger, I wished for a place outside of school and my family to not worry about my home life,” shares Seth. “I want my work here to give that opportunity to the kids. Sometimes getting out and doing something unique and fun can really help you work through the problems you are facing.”

“I like to see parents reconnecting with their kids in ways they haven’t been able to,” Alex adds. “It’s really special to witness someone’s joy after a hardship and seeing them get their spark back.”

Seth, Violine, Alex, Katie, and Kaylynn are completing training to become Certified Domestic Violence Advocates. This credential is awarded by ZeroV, our state coalition of domestic violence service providers, and prepares advocates with best practices to support survivors and their children.