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History of Handmade by Survivors

“It’s not just about the product. It’s very much about the person that put their creativity and their heart into the product.” 

Every soap, tin of bath salts, lip balm, and candle is from a survivor’s creativity, care, and journey toward healing. Bekah, a family advocate and the staff member who makes products with survivors, shares this history of Handmade by Survivors.

Product Making History   

Bekah has always loved art, and years ago, she began leading our crafting groups. 

“I really like doing activities that involve self-care, particularly for adults. Adult women don’t often take time to take care of themselves,” she says.  “And in an abusive relationship, are discouraged from taking care of themselves. I really believe in the idea of giving them a safe space to tap into creativity.”   

Early product-making focused on lip balm, homemade lotions, and salve because they’re easy products to make.  

“We would go into the kitchen and grab a microwave and take it into the art room. We bought a little hot plate and we would just do an impromptu craft group and teach ladies how to make things for themselves.”  

Survivor Involvement   

“Throughout the whole process, survivors helped along the way. Every product we’ve made has a story connected to it. It’s not really about the product, it’s about the individual that came up with the product.”   

“We would play word games in our craft group with whatever scent we were using. I would have participants choose an essential oil or a flower or an herb that they were really drawn to,” explains Bekah. “They would share why they were drawn to it. From there we would research and figure out what notes went well together within that scent.”  

Participants created Soothing Serenity, one of our very first soaps, from start to finish. Most recently, the Benevolence cold-process soap also was imagined and formulated by a participant.   

“She happened to pick up an essential oil that I was using for a group activity the following day and fell in love with the scent. We came up with a blend and decided to add an extra soap that we weren’t even planning to do.”  

The Heart of Our Products  

“The whole purpose of what we do is about the journey for the individual working on the product. Our end goal is to give them a safe space to tap into skills that they already have and to give them a safe place to tap into something that might give them some self-care down the road. Something to be proud about.”  

Every Handmade by Survivors purchase is about the person that put their creativity and their heart into the product.  

“I very much went into this with the hope of creating a space for economic justice for women that have not had those opportunities. The women I work with have skills that they just don’t tap into because they haven’t had the encouragement, or the time, or don’t realize they have the skills.”   

Over the years, many ladies have gone on to open their own online shops or make their own products and sell to small businesses.   

Bekah’s Favorite Product  

“I love anything Awaken Joy. I love that peppermint scent. It reminds me of my grandmother, so it just takes me to a happy place.”  

Purchase Handmade by Survivors products!

They make great gifts and stocking stuffers 🎁

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Pride Month 2025

As we honor Pride Month, we celebrate the activists who dedicated their lives to creating safe and inclusive spaces for all survivors. We appreciate and admire the work the following people have done in the LGBTQIA+ community against violence and encourage you to read more about their achievements. 

Del Martin & Phyllis Lyon

Co-founders of organizations for women’s rights and domestic violence awareness.

Audre Lorde

Founding member of the Women’s Coalition of St. Croix which supported survivors.

Sylvia Rivera

Co-founder of the Gay Liberation Front, Gay Activists Alliance, and STAR.

Marsha P. Johnson

Co-founder of STAR which supported trans youth.

Barbara Gittings

Removed homosexuality from the APA’s mental disorders list.

Ruth Ellis

Opened her home for LGBTQ+ youth facing homelessness and violence.

Read more at this link.

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NNEDV Domestic Violence Counts

In just one day, 79,088 adults and children received essential, life-changing services from local programs.

Each year domestic violence programs take part in the National Network to End Domestic Violence (NNEDV) Domestic Violence Counts Survey. It’s a one-day count of adults and children seeking services in the United States.  

This survey documents the number of people seeking services, types of services, and requests that went unmet due to lack of resources.  

The 19th annual survey took place on September 4, 2024, with 1,741 domestic violence programs taking part. All 15 domestic violence programs in Kentucky participated.  

Kentucky Results 

1,268 Victims Served  
  • 803 adults and children found refuge in emergency shelters, transitional housing, hotels, motels, or other housing provided by local domestic violence programs.  
  • 465 adults and children received non-residential supportive services like transportation, court accompaniment, counseling, and more.  
174 Hotline Contacts Received  
  • Domestic violence hotlines are lifelines for victims in danger, providing support, information, safety planning, and resources via phone, chat, text, and email. Hotline staff received 174 contacts, averaging more than 7 contacts per hour.  
105 People Educated  
  • On the survey day, local domestic violence programs provided 5 educational sessions and training to 105 members of the public, addressing topics like domestic violence prevention and early intervention. 
70 Unmet Requests for Services  
  • Victims made 70 requests for services that programs could not provide because they did not have the resources. Approximately 57% of these unmet requests were for emergency shelter, hotels, motels, and other housing. 

      Find the full report at this link.

      19th Annual Domestic Violence Counts Report

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      KY Gives Day 2025

      Sending our biggest thanks to everyone who grew hope for survivors during KY Gives Day 2025! 

      We raised over $7,500 in 24 hours – our best KY Gives Day ever!! 🥳 Special thanks to the Suburban Woman’s Club of Lexington and a generous anonymous donor for matching funds!

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      Original blog post published April 22, 2025:

      Our friends at the Kentucky Nonprofit Network organize this one-day giving event to unite the community around causes that matter.

      Your donation will grow hope for more than a hundred adults and children receiving our services – and could be doubled or even tripled by our generous matching gifts!

      • Donations made before midnight on May 13 will be matched $1 for $1 until our generous $2,500 match from an anonymous donor runs out.

      • And donations made during the Morning Power Hour at 10 am will be matched again, $1 for $1, by the Suburban Woman’s Club of Lexington!

      Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn to see all the updates!

      Make your gift at KYGives.org

      Follow the link above to make your gift to support survivors.

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      Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month

      1 in 3 teens will experience physical, sexual, or emotional abuse by someone they are in a relationship with before they become adults.

      February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month and this year’s theme is, “Respect That.”  

      Action Guide 

      Love is respect has shared an Action Guide which includes information about: 

      • Respect in a relationship 
      • Respecting differences 
      • Addressing stigma 
      • Identifying disrespectful behavior 
      Talk to Young People 

      Having conversations now can help young people in your life identify red flags when it’s time to start dating. Share and model what a healthy relationship looks like – talk about respect, equality, safety, and trust. 

      Suggest this quiz from love is respect for a relationship checkup. Discuss these warning signs from a partner.       

      Make sure they know dating abuse is not just physical. Dating abuse is a pattern of behavior used to gain or maintain power and control over a partner. Read about the different types of abuse  

      Share This Number 

      Share this number – 22522 – and let them know they can text “loveis” to check in with a peer advocate about their relationship. 

      We are here for you 24/7.

      Call our hotline at 800-544-2022 to speak with a trained advocate.

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      January is National Stalking Awareness Month

      Stalking often co-occurs with intimate partner violence and can be an indicator of other forms of violence.  

      All stalkers can be dangerous. Intimate partner stalkers, compared to acquaintance and stranger stalkers, are more likely to threaten and physically assault the victim and their friends and family.   

      Diane’s Story 

      Our associate director shares her story about an ex-partner who stalked her in college. 

      Learn More 
      • Call our 24-hour Crisis Hotline to speak with an advocate: 800-544-2022.   
      • Follow SPARC – Stalking Prevention, Awareness & Resource Center.   
      • Use SHARP (Stalking and Harassment Assessment and Risk Profile) to get a narrative of a situation and safety strategies. 
      For Employers 

      44% of US adults say they have experienced the effects of intimate partner abuse at work. Raise awareness and offer support by placing these tear-off sheets in your workplace. Read this blog post about creating a safe workspace.

      Call us 24/7 at 800-544-2022

      If you or someone you know is being stalked, reach out to a trained advocate.

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      New Spotify Playlists!

      A new collection of songs for people who support survivors 💜

      Trigger alert: If you are a survivor, this post could trigger memories. If you need to talk to someone, remember our hotline is available 24-hours a day: 800-544-2022. 

      We’re excited to share three Spotify playlists curated by our advocates and staff. 

      Do you have a song suggestion you’d like to see on our playlists? Message us on Instagram or Facebook to share.

      Follow us on Spotify!

      Click the link above to visit our Spotify profile.

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      Olive’s Apron

      “This is making my momma heart so happy.”

      Thanks to the generosity of Olive’s Apron, a charming tea shop and bakery in Lexington, a few moms and daughters living at the shelter got to experience the most magical tea party.  

      The tea party room was a fairytale. We got to dress up in fairy wings and with magic wands in hand, we were treated to beautifully arranged trays of cupcakes, cheesecake mousse, sandwiches, and other delicious treats. The Olive’s Apron team went above and beyond to make us feel cared for. 

      “It was such a special, sweet day,” said Hallie, our community engagement coordinator. Advocate Finley added, “It was a fairy tea party dream. We had so much fun!”

      About Olive’s Apron 

      Olive’s Apron owner Ashley Crossen named the shop after her great-granny, Olive. Her photo, along with her rolling pin and biscuit cutter, holds a place of honor on the mantle in the shop. 

      You can stop by for treats and tea Wednesday – Sunday. They also offer afternoon tea, tea parties, and custom cakes and cupcakes.

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      Crisis Hotline Tear-Off Flyer

      Raise awareness & offer support 💜

      A local hospital reached out to request a crisis hotline tear-off sheet to hang in their bathrooms. We thought it was a fantastic idea and wanted to share it so other workplaces can also offer this resource. 

      The Impact 

      By placing these tear-off sheets in your workplace, you can: 

      • Raise Awareness: Help bring attention to intimate partner abuse and our organization’s services. 
      • Offer Support: Provide an immediate, accessible resource for those in need. The tear-off sheets contain our crisis hotline number which is answered 24/7. 
      • Show Compassion: Show your employees and visitors your commitment to their well-being. This small gesture can significantly impact someone’s life.

      Download the flyer.

      Click on the link above to download a flyer to print or share with others.

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      Why can’t we accept used donations?

      We are deeply grateful for the outpouring of support from our community.

      Your generosity enables us to provide safety and essential resources for survivors of intimate partner abuse.  

      Knowing this, many supporters are surprised that we can’t accept used donations. There are many reasons why and lots of ways to still make a significant impact. 

      Why no used donations? 

      We just don’t have enough space. Our emergency shelter is at capacity almost every night. The shelter’s small basement stores food, towels, sheets, personal supplies, paper towels, toilet paper, trash bags, and other essentials for more than 300 adults and children each year.  

      Thanks to donation drives and annual events like Shop & Share, the basement remains full for most of the year. 

      Last year it took more than 500 hours of staff and volunteer time to keep the basement tidy. The time needed to sort and organize used donations limits the number of advocacy and healing services we can provide.  

      Ensuring a clean and safe environment is crucial, and accepting only new items helps us maintain these standards.

      It’s also about empowerment. Abusers have told survivors they’re unworthy, harmed their bodies, and destroyed their well-being. It’s our goal to embrace survivors with options, choices, and self-determination as they re-imagine their lives after surviving abuse. 

      Partnerships make this possible. 

      Our longtime partnerships with area Goodwill stores (see map) and Habitat ReStore locations (see map) make a difference in the lives of survivors. Both organizations issue vouchers to our organization that are then distributed for survivors to shop for needed items. 

      This process offers survivors the chance to choose clothing that fits their bodies, lifestyles, and work/school dress codes. When it’s safe for adults and children to move out of the shelter, these vouchers also help survivors obtain tables, chairs, dishes, coffee pots, toasters, and other items necessary to begin again. 

      Be sure to let our partners know we referred your donation to them. It helps keep our partnerships strong! 

      New Donations 

      If you’d like to contribute, there are several meaningful ways to help.  

      1. Monetary donations allow us to address the most urgent needs promptly.  
      2. Gift cards to local stores allow residents to choose exactly what they need.  
      3. We also keep a wish list of most needed items here and a gift list at amazon.com that can be shipped directly to our shelter address.  

      Thank you for understanding and supporting us in creating a safe, welcoming environment for survivors. Your compassion and generosity are greatly appreciated. 

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