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Purple Ribbon Award for Program of the Year

We have received the Purple Ribbon Award for Program of the Year by Domesticshelters.org. A $10,000 grant to support services for survivors accompanies this national honor.

Theresa’s FundDomesticShelters.org and experts in the field launched the Purple Ribbon Awards, the first comprehensive awards program honoring shelters, programs, volunteers, and survivors committed to ending intimate partner abuse.

“We all know it’s not easy work. But helping victims, survivors and their families and the relentless pursuit to end domestic violence is absolutely fulfilling and necessary work.” – Award organizers

Gold medallions were awarded to notable nominees across 28 categories earlier this year. GreenHouse17 also was recognized for Most Innovative Service and Best Annual/Impact Report.

Grant Announcement

More than 650 people from 58 states/provinces and 10 countries attended the awards celebration and announcement of grant winners on September 15. Filmmaker Angela Shelton served as the special guest host for the event. 

“It means so much to be honored by fellow advocates in the mission,” remarked Darlene Thomas, our executive director, after learning of the grant award.” She later reflected on the honor in an email to staff and members of our Board of Directors: “Folks from all over the country sent out a huge congratulations to you, your work, your vision and commitment to survivors.”

Fellow Award Winners

We send our congratulations to these and other inspirational award winners:

SOS violence conjugale
Outstanding Awareness Campaign
Quebec, Canada
$7,500 Grant Recipient

G.R.O.W. Foundation
Survivor of the Year (Neisha Himes)
Chesapeake, VA
$5,000 Grant Recipient

Control Alt Delete
Most Innovative Service
Phoenix, AZ
$2,500 Grant Recipient

Laurens County Safe Home
Shelter Turnaround of the Year
Clinton, SC
$2,500 Grant Recipient

Center of Hope
Shelter Employee of the Year (Rachel Enriquez)
Columbia, TN
$2,500 Grant Recipient

About the organizers

DomesticShelters.org was launched in 2014 by Theresa’s Fund, an Arizona-based organization that has been deeply committed and involved in preventing violence against women since 1992. The website has become one of the fastest-growing websites on the topic of domestic violence.

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Purple Ribbon Awards

We’ve received national Purple Ribbon Awards for Best Shelter (Agency), Most Innovative Program (Farm), and Best Annual/Impact Report (Bloom)!

The Purple Ribbon Awards are new this year! DomesticShelters.orgTheresa’s Fund, and experts in the field came together to launch the first awards program honoring survivors, nonprofits, and advocates working to end intimate partner violence.  

We are winners in three categories! The Purple Ribbon Awards Celebration is on September 15th at 6:30pm. Grants totaling up to $30,000 will be made to select winners. The link to register is below! 

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Register for The Purple Ribbon Awards Celebration

If you register before September 12th, you're entered for a chance to win a $250 Amazon gift card. (Must be present to win)

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Visit our table at DV8 Kitchen!

DV8 Kitchen’s new location is now open and you can eat at the GreenHouse17 table!  

In February, DV8 Kitchen invited 14 nonprofit organizations in the recovery community to paint a table for their new location in Lexington’s East End – 594 E Third St #100. 

Kristin Carpenter, a local artist and member of our staff, painted ours! Her original painting illustrates the benefits of nature-based healing. Lots of sunshine and water nourish flowers and vegetables to grow strong and stand tall in the fields. Our 24-hour hotline in the bottom right corner of the table will help survivors to connect with supportive services. 

DV8 Kitchen is a local restaurant & bakery that employs people in recovery from substance use disorder who are trying to redirect their lives. Their original location on South Broadway has thrived since opening in August 2017.  

The work of DV8 Kitchen is especially important to our mission. Many survivors struggle with substance use while healing from intimate partner abuse. A strong and supportive community is crucial for those on the path to healing and sobriety. 

If you eat at our table, please tag us on social media so we can share it!

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Celebrating Three Years of the Children’s Safe Exchange & Visitation Program

Nurturing Young Lives

Three years ago on August 23rd, staff and community partners gathered to launch our Children’s Safe Exchange and Visitation program. Continuation of these vital services was necessary after the closure of Sunflower Kids.

More than 8,000 safe visitations and exchanges have been provided since the ribbon-cutting ceremony. Services are provided from two locations in downtown Lexington and Georgetown.

“Children deserve connection and bonding without worrying about conflict, intimidation, control, and further abuse,” says Darlene Thomas, Executive Director.  

Visitation and monitored exchanges are facilitated without contact between adult parties, keeping program participants safe throughout the process. This is also beneficial to the children so they do not have to potentially witness any intimidation, manipulation, or abuse between parents.  

Thank You 

AU Associates donates the program’s Lexington office space, while Georgetown Police provides in-kind space for services in Scott County.  Partnerships with Lexington Police, Friend of the Court, and Family Court judges also support the program.

Startup funds were provided by LFUCG Department of Social Services, through the Department of Special Grants and Programs.

Primary funding for the program now comes from VOCA – Victims of Crime Act – awarded through the Kentucky Justice and Public Safety Cabinet by the U.S. Department of Justice.

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More Information About the Children's Safe Exchange and Visitation Program

For FAQ or to request an intake for this program, click the link above.

This project was supported by Grant Number VOCA-2020-GreenHouse-00109 awarded through the Kentucky Justice and Public Safety Cabinet by the U.S. Department of Justice. The opinions, findings, conclusions, and recommendations expressed in this publication/program/exhibition are those of the author(s) and do not necessarily reflect the views of the Kentucky Justice and Public Safety Cabinet or the U.S. Department of Justice.

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What We Know About Strangulation

Many people will experience intimate partner violence in their lifetime, and of those, up to 68 percent will suffer near-fatal strangulation by their abuser.

In a recent conversation with legal advocate Stephanie Love, I asked what trends she has noticed over the years in the court system. She talked about strangulation and how it has only been considered a felony since summer 2019 in Kentucky. 

ZeroV, The Mary Byron ProjectLou Anna Red Corn, and many others worked hard to advocate for Senate Bill 70 to be passed and make strangulation a felony in Kentucky. 

Up to 68 percent of intimate partner abuse victims will suffer near-fatal strangulation by their abuser. Some people mistakenly use the word ‘choking,’ but this is a crime meant to stop the victim from breathing.

Defining Strangulation and What it Means for Survivors

The Training Institute on Strangulation Prevention defines strangulation as “the obstruction of blood vessels and/or airflow in the neck resulting in asphyxia.” This type of assault can have serious, permanent, or even fatal damage to the victim’s throat or brain. Symptoms include: 

  • Loss of memory 
  • Loss of consciousness 
  • Chest pain 
  • Bruising on neck 
  • Unable to speak or swallow 

For more signs and symptoms, click here. Warning – this is a very graphic poster, although it’s not a real person depicted.

This crime is often missed by law enforcement and medical professionals because in more than half of cases, there are no visible signs.  The National Domestic Violence Hotline reports that strangulation is a significant predictor of future lethal violence.

If someone has been strangled by a partner in the past, the risk of being killed by that partner is seven times higher.

Get Help

Do you fear your partner will strangle you or worry about the long-term effects of previous strangulation abuse? We will answer your call 24 hours a day, every day of the year – 800-544-2022. 

The featured image was inspired by MobileODT.

Further Reading

Click the link above to open a brochure from Alliance for Hope International about strangulation. There is a ‘visible signs’ drawing that is graphic included on the brochure.

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Magical Connections with Tabitha Dial

“When I think about my intuitive reading and your mission, the word magical comes to mind,” Tabitha Dial says. “We’re both caring about the community, as well as the individual, to support them in finding their voice.” 

When Tabitha Dial, an intuitive tarot and tea leaf reader, moved from Colorado to Lexington six years ago, she felt called to support our mission. 

“I have known a few women who have revealed their stories of domestic partner abuse to me, and I know there are many, many unheard stories that remain.” 

Tabitha began her support by offering donation-based readings at Third Street Stuff. Since then, she’s been one of our most engaged social media followers and always finds creative ways to celebrate nature-based healing on social media. 

While a member of the Autumn Vegetable and Herb CSA, Tabitha was inspired to write “Green Soup,” an award-winning poem featured in Kentucky Monthly’s Annual Writers’ Showcase. 

“When I think about my intuitive reading and your mission, the word magical comes to mind,” she says. “We’re both caring about the community, as well as the individual, to support them in finding their voice.” 

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Facebook Fundraisers – It’s so easy!

“I believe it’s a cause that deserves more awareness.”

For the past two years, around the time of his birthday, Kellen Macklin launched Facebook Fundraisers to ask his friends and family to make a donation to support GreenHouse17. His efforts have collected $1,250 to support our mission.

“My life hasn’t directly been affected by domestic violence, but I’ve been very close to people whose lives have been for many years. I believe it’s a cause that deserves more awareness.” 

“I was initially pretty apprehensive about using Facebook Fundraisers, but it’s so simple. Maybe takes 30 seconds to set up everything.” 

Donors can choose if their donations are public or private, and Facebook covers processing fees for gifts made to registered charitable organizations. When the fundraiser ends, donations are deposited directly to the organization’s bank account. 

“Even if you only raise a few dollars for whatever organization you choose, it’s more than they had before.”  

Kellen also supports us in other ways. Many nights while bartending at Arcadium in Lexington, he wears a purple mask with the words “support survivors” to spark conversations about our mission. 

This article was included in our print newsletter, Bloom. To read all the articles, click here.

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Summering with GreenHouse17 Series Wrap Up

Thank you for joining me during my Summering with GreenHouse17 series.

I’ve had an amazing 10 weeks so far working here. I’ve learned so much about all the things we do to support survivors and stand by them while they heal from abuse.  

I’ve played in the backyard with the kids living at shelter, made a dish with Chef Theo, observed a group meeting, attended court with a legal advocate, and had so many more eye-opening and important experiences.  

I love getting to see residents and their kids in the halls when I get to shelter. Hearing their stories is so impactful and I can’t wait to share them with you. You can find Daisy’s story here and survivor field notes here on our Instagram, and Rose’s story here on the blog. 

You can help support GreenHouse17!  An easy way is to follow us on social media – Instagram, Facebook, Twitter and like, comment, and share our posts! It helps us reach more people.  

I’ll leave you with a quote Darlene, our Executive Director, ends each email with —  

“Each time a woman stands up for herself, without knowing it possibly, without claiming it, she stands up for all women.” 
— Maya Angelou   

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Summering with GreenHouse17 – Legal Advocacy

In this fifth post from the Summering with GreenHouse17 series, Chelsey goes off the farm and joins one of our legal advocates in court.

Advocacy is at the center of what we do at GreenHouse17. Survivors need to know they’re supported, especially when navigating the legal system. This is where our legal advocates come in. 

We have legal advocates in all 17 counties we serve. They are at court each day judges are ruling on domestic violence cases. In Fayette County that is Monday – Thursday from 8:30am until about 10:30 or 11am. 

I was able to join advocate Katy Goins to learn more about what our legal advocates’ roles are. 

I arrived at the Fayette Circuit Court at 8:30am on a Monday morning to meet Katy. She introduced me to Carmen Brown, an advocate from The Nest. They work together to make sure everyone is offered support. 

Katy and Carmen go speak to all the petitioners (16 on the day I attended) on the docket for the day. Advocates answer any questions petitioners have and offer emotional support if they are upset. For a lot of petitioners, it’s their first time in court and it’s very scary for them to be facing their abuser. Family and friends are not allowed in the courtroom. 

The judge works through the docket and these things mainly happen with cases –  

  • If the respondent wants to tell their side of the story, a hearing is scheduled. 
  • Cases are dismissed if the petitioner requests it. The judge always asks the petitioner if they have talked to an advocate before dismissing. 
  • Approving a protective order if the respondent passes on telling their side of the story. 

It was an intense day and I have so much respect for the survivors going through this and the legal advocates that are there to help them.  

Whether you just want to talk or you’re ready to initiate services, we will answer your call 24 hours a day, every day of the year – 800-544-2022. 

Further Reading

For more detailed information about protective orders and court procedures, visit the link above.

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Home Safe Home

Starting over after abuse takes time. 

Survivors often leave behind more than a home. Many begin again without furniture, clothing, and a vehicle. Sometimes the abuser has maintained power and control by not allowing a survivor to work or sabotaging their employment. Housing advocates help with these challenges.

“I have no family support and had nowhere to go,” shares a survivor who asked to remain anonymous. “I couldn’t afford daycare to work full-time and provide as a single mom.” 

While beginning to heal from the physical and emotional wounds of abuse, survivors meet with housing advocates to create an individualized housing plan. Early conversations imagine possibilities and identify barriers. 

Legal advocacy, credit repair, benefit applications, and budgeting assistance begin to chip away the obstacles. Partnering organizations provide job search, childcare, and other resources to help make the transition possible. Although each survivor needs different types of housing support, most receive temporary rental and utility assistance. 

Some survivors transition to apartments in their home county or near supportive family and friends, while others move to apartments in KCADV Homes Lexington. Twelve of these units are scattered near downtown Lexington, with easy access to public transportation, and twelve cottage-style duplexes are nestled on the backside of the emergency shelter’s property. 

Our housing team partners with dozens of organizations, companies, and landlords to support survivors during the transition to safe, affordable housing. Jubilee Jobs of Lexington offers job search services; Habitat for Humanity ReStore provides vouchers for furniture purchases; and Wildcat Moving, 2 Dudes Moving, and College HUNKS Moving offer services at no cost or reduced fees. 

“I always felt supported while in the program, and my abuser never knew where to find me. I can feel safe and my children can, too.” 

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