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Our 17th Anniversary 💜

It’s our 17th anniversary! Federal designation officially naming our organization a nonprofit entity arrived on February 14, 2005. 

Services had begun a year from the old YWCA property, while earlier while matters of governance and partnerships were addressed. Darlene, our executive director, reflects on the night when the decision was made to move to our current location.

“I stood at the back door of an empty building on 40-acres of rural farmland in central Kentucky.  The grass and trees seemed to glow in the golden light of the setting sun. Feelings of safety and possibility warmed my soul as the sun lowered in the sky. 

Although a move was imminent, I was struggling with the decision to relocate our organization so far from downtown Lexington, Kentucky. How will survivors stay connected with community service organizations in the city? Can we engage supporters of the mission from this country location?

I imagined a small group of survivors sitting on the back porch and sharing their stories as day peacefully transitioned to night. This sunset was giving me answers to questions I had been asking for weeks. Before the light dipped below the horizon, the decision was made. This building would become our new home.” 

Although much has changed in the years since the move to our current beautiful 40-acre property in rural Fayette County, hope and possibility continue to inform our mission. 

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Looking back on 17 Years

It’s our anniversary! Federal designation officially naming our organization a nonprofit entity arrived on February 14, 2005. Today we’re looking back on the past 17 years and recommitting to our mission until the violence ends.

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Anniversary Reflections on the Farm

It’s our 17th anniversary! Federal designation officially naming our organization a nonprofit entity arrived on February 14, 2005. We interviewed Darlene Thomas, our executive director, for her reflections on the farm’s history through years.

“While settling into the new shelter 17 years ago, we began to consider how to integrate the land with services for survivors. Maybe equine therapy or a herd of sheep? Although these options weren’t a good fit, early dialogues confirmed the land must complement existing traditional services for survivors.

Local and national conversations were beginning to explore topics related to food deserts, local food production, and social entrepreneurship. We convened community experts to discuss how our land could be used to address these issues.The commitment of staff and resources to achieve this integration would be substantial, so we started small with only a few box gardens of seasonal herbs and vegetables for meal prep in shelter.

We honed our gardening skills and observed interest in the effort over the next two seasons. Consultations with arborists and farmers informed our land use plan, and local garden clubs provided native cuttings and seeds for planting. A generous grant from Grow Appalachia allowed us to hire a Farm Advocate to manage the farm and programming. This early financial commitment allowed us to leverage additional support from United Way, Kentucky Utilities, and Toyota Motor Manufacturing, Kentucky.”

Listening & Responding

We thought vegetable production would be our primary focus, but the community inspired a new unexpected direction for the farm.

“A few years ago, survivors and staff had planted a small garden of flowers. Kentucky Proud admired the flowers during a visit to the farm and asked if we might put together some small table bouquets for their kick-off breakfast at the State Fair.

Soon after that event, calls and emails requesting bouquets of our flowers for centerpieces overwhelmed us. The expansion of our flower production became a priority. Around this same time, individuals and private foundations stepped in to fund the renovation of an outbuilding on the back of our farm program for much-needed space to fulfill flower orders and facilitate workshops for survivors.

John Paul and Eloise DeJoria, with friends from JP’s Peace, Love & Happiness Foundation, visited the farm to learn more about our program. That visit inspired a generous donation to begin renovation of the outbuilding. Don and Mira Ball provided additional generous support to complete the project.

Special attention was given to the renovation to meet certified commercial kitchen requirements. Today, this building is the hub for production of value-added products from the farm, including lip balms, soaps, other Handmade By Survivors products.”

Promising Results

A federal grant awarded to the University of Kentucky Center for Research on Violence Against Women to conduct multi-year research on the farm’s effectiveness recently concluded. Publication of the research outcomes is expected soon.

“Stories and statistics tell us the farm-based programs we have developed are effective. Those few early box gardens have grown to almost 7,000 square feet of cultivated land, and approximately 60% of shelter residents directly participate in at least one nature-based program during their stay with us. But I believe all survivors living at our shelter benefit from indirect engagement with the farm. Even just sitting on the porch watching the sunset or listening to the rain can make a difference.”

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Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas! 💜

Celebrate love and healthy relationships on Valentine’s Day with Handmade by Survivors products!

Hope Box makes a special Valentine’s Day gift for a partner, friend, or yourself. Products are packaged in a cute printed box, signed by the survivors that helped make them. It includes a lip balm, bar of soap, tin of bath salts, and a soy wax candle.  

The Hope Box ships free to any address across the nation. 🎉 Let us know if you’d like to include a short note for your special someone. We’ll handwrite your message on a gift card for no additional charge. 

More Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas

Send a Lip Balm Sampler to your friends to celebrate them on Valentine’s Day! They’ll love the natural ingredients and sassy names of our lip balms: Don’t tell me to smile, Dissent, Zest for Rights, Concinnt, and Reclaim Calm. 

Encourage your friend or partner to take time for a little self-care during the Valentine’s Day weekend with the gift of a Bath Salt Sampler. Blends of Himalayan pink salt, Epsom salts, and essential oils soothe body and spirit. 

A hand-poured soy wax candle with natural essential oil fragrance always makes a perfect gift. Our Candle Super Sampler includes plenty of candles to share with friends and loved ones on Valentine’s Day. 

Every purchase supports survivors 

Your purchase of Handmade by Survivors products will support victims of intimate partner abuse as they establish safety and heal from the physical and emotional wounds of abuse. 

Making products has a special connection to our mission. The process provides collaborative work and microenterprise experience for survivors, while also generating resources for our organization. 

Our products are Kentucky Proud. 

 

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Winter on the Farm

Many of the pictures you see of our farm are filled with blooming flowers in the spring and summer months, but have you wondered what goes on when the temperatures start dropping? Winter on the farm is beautiful and busy! 

Production on the farm stopped at the end of October 2021. The farm team – Christina and Hattie, along with some volunteers – cleared out all of the annual flower beds. They physically removed every stem by hand (!) and mowed the beds down. They also ordered all the flower seeds, vegetable seeds, compost, and tools needed for this upcoming season.    

At the end of the growing season, cover crop was applied to help restore soil health in beds that had been worked throughout the year. Newly-formed beds were covered with landscape fabric to kill grass and weeds and ensure that the soil is protected from erosion and retains carbon.  

In November, they dug up the dahlias to store in crates and save until winter is over. They look like sweet potatoes!

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They also planted bulbs! Anemone and ranunculus, two spring favorites, were planted both in the field and in one of the high tunnels. Garlic was planted, too, and covered with straw for a big harvest in July.  

The high tunnels were cleaned out and repaired, replacing some of the old plastic siding.

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This month farm staff seeded 14 trays – including yarrow, snapdragons, mountain mint, bupleurum, statice, rudbeckia, and dianthus.

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The main focus now is planning and mapping the farm to figure out where everything will be planted. 

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KFW’s Art Meets Activism Grant Recipient 

The Art Meets Activism grant from the Kentucky Foundation for Women will allow us to provide trauma-informed artmaking with survivors of intimate partner abuse. 

This Art Meets Activism grant will provide an advocate on staff with training and certification in therapeutic artmaking. We’ll be able to offer art-based support groups for residents at shelter, as well as community-based workshops for survivors receiving supportive services outside of shelter, with an informed focus on healing. Open studio sessions will also be available for self-guided art.  

The goal of these activities is to help survivors heal emotionally. Similar to the nature-based healing approach of our farm, trauma-informed art-making may increase survivors’ confidence, leading to improved feelings of self-worth and well-being. Through group sessions, there is the opportunity to become more connected to community, ultimately reducing the frequent feelings of isolation some survivors experience.    

We are honored to receive this grant and be among so many inspirational women and organizations. Here is a full list of fellow grant winners 

About KFW 

The Kentucky Foundation for Women is a private foundation formed in 1985 by Louisville writer Sallie Bingham.  Its mission is to promote positive social change by supporting varied feminist expression in the arts. 

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Celebrating Martin Luther King Jr. Day

“Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that.”

As we honor and celebrate the legacy of Martin Luther King, Jr, these words written by him decades ago continue to inspire and make a meaningful connection to our mission. 

“I have the audacity to believe that peoples everywhere can have three meals a day for their bodies, education and culture for their minds, and dignity, equality, and freedom for their spirits.”

His words call us to personal and social action that acknowledges racism and prejudice persist in our lives, community, and nation.

“Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly.”

We are reminded that freedom of spirit is tied to every part of our being and that long-term sustainable change is possible.

“We shall overcome because the arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends toward justice.”

As this new year continues to unfold, may we continue to serve and commit to justice with the same peace and compassion of today. Let us remember that to serve is to commit to change — and to change we must heal.

Continue to educate yourself.

Our book recommendation is Stamped from the Beginning: The Definitive History of Racist Ideas in America by Ibram X. Kendi

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January is National Stalking Awareness Month

Stalking is illegal and survivors have rights.

For Survivors

Stalking often co-occurs with intimate partner violence and can be an indicator of other forms of violence. 

All stalkers can be dangerous. Intimate partner stalkers, compared to acquaintance and stranger stalkers, are more likely to threaten and physically assault the victim and their friends and family. 

Did you know stalking can include these behaviors? 

  • Repeated phone calls, texts, or communication on your social media 
  • Sending unwanted gifts to your home or work 
  • Threatening you or your loved ones 
  • Following you or watching you from a distance 
  • Digital harassment, such as tracking your location through an app or showing up at a place you’ve checked into online 

Learn more about the crime and ways to plan for your safety: 

For the Community 

How can you take action? 

  • Share information on social media. Follow SPARC and share their infographics and other posts to inform your friends and family. 
  • Learn how to support someone experiencing stalking by reading this document. 
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SPARC Stalking & IPV: Fact Sheet

Click here to find out more facts on Stalking & Intimate Partner Violence

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Damselfly Gallery

“I was inspired by the beauty of it all.”

You’ll find Damselfly Gallery on Main Street in historic downtown Midway. Paintings, pottery, jewelry, and woodworks by Kentucky artists fill the eclectic gallery.

Rob Mills purchased the shop from the Thoreson family a few years ago. His mother, Karol, moved from Pennsylvania to help out a couple times a week. She loves getting to meet so many new people.

Karol found out about Handmade by Survivors products from an article in Kentucky Homes & Gardens. She came to take a tour of our shelter and farm to learn more about becoming a retail sales partner. “I was inspired by the beauty of it all,” says Karol.

She’s proud to support the mission and spread the word in the community, always sharing a brochure and information if people are not familiar with our organization. Karol loves anything with lavender, so her favorite products are the Fresh Start candle and Remembrance soap.

Damselfly Gallery is open seven days a week.

This is one article from our fall issue of Bloom. Click here to read the full issue! 

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