Safe at Home Act

The Safe at Home Act to encourage confidentiality for survivors of intimate partner abuse in Kentucky became effective June 29, 2023. 

This new Kentucky law allows victims fleeing domestic abuse to shield their new addresses from public records, mask their addresses on publicly available government records, and register to vote without their address being public. 

No special court order will be required, and the program is administered at no fee to participants. 

You are eligible for the program if able to provide a sworn statement that you are a victim of domestic violence, sexual assault, or human trafficking and believe address confidentiality will improve your safety. 

Call our 24-hour hotline for help completing the Safe at Home application form: 800-544-2022  

Submission of a complete and notarized application is required. Upon approved participation for the program, you will receive a participant card and packet of additional information. 

Participants may use the Secretary of State’s address on most public records instead of their own. The Secretary of State’s office will forward mail received to the participant’s confidential address. 

Approved participation remains valid for four years and can be renewed upon expiration. Most other states provide similar programs, and victims may be eligible for similar address confidentiality if they relocate. 

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Technology & Intimate Partner Abuse

Although intimate partner abuse takes many forms, power and control are at the root of the violence—and abusers are using technology more than ever before. 

Technology meant to improve general safety, like “find my phone” and family-locator functions, is being used to monitor survivors before, during, and after fleeing abuse.  Spyware and stalkerware are available from mobile app stores.  

Portable GPS tracking devices seem to get smaller every year and keep battery power for more than a year. Hidden in a car seat pocket or lining of a purse, these devices can be nearly impossible to find. 

Internet of Things  

The ever-growing Internet of Things, often abbreviated IoT, presents added safety concerns for survivors. IoT devices include things like these: 

  • Doorbell cameras 
  • Voice-activated help devices (Alexa, for example) 
  • Smart locks  
  • Smart thermostats 
  • Smart TVs 
  • Smartwatches 

This New York Times article shares stories of survivors who suffered increased abuse through technology during the pandemic. The stories include abusers controlling smart devices while not even in the home.  

Thermostats set to 100 degrees, the heat being turned off during bitter winter months, and music blaring through smart speakers for hours are common tactics. Hotline advocates also report increased use of smart locks to control when a victim could leave home. 

Even five years ago, staying offline could be helpful for survivors while trying to flee the abuser.  

“But the solution simply cannot be for survivors to disengage,” says Corbin Street, NNEDV Technology Safety Specialist. “Survivors have a right to use technology, to participate in life both online and off, and to live a life free of harassment, abuse, and stalking.”  

Recent Kentucky legislation could help. 

The unlawful use of tracking devices on motor vehicles will become a Class A misdemeanor effective June 30.  

A person could be found guilty if they’ve installed or arranged for installation of a tracking device in or on a motor vehicle or have tracked the location of a vehicle with a tracking device, without the knowledge and consent of the owner or lessee of the vehicle.  

Darlene Thomas, our executive director, recently spoke with WKYT News about the law’s specific inclusion of intimate partner abuse. The use of tracking devices by a restrained party under a protective order to track the location of a motor vehicle operated or occupied by an individual who is protected by the order is against the law. 

More Resources 

The NNEDV Tech Safety App is a collection of information and resources for survivors who suspect abuse through technology. Information is organized by device and type of abuse, including harassment, impersonation, and location tracking. 

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HollerGirl – Healing Harmonies

“Women need to be heard.”

The second annual HollerGirl festival happens later this summer. The female-forward weekend highlights Kentucky music, workshops, and art to promote healing.

“I wanted to combine the idea of highlighting female musicians with raising awareness for domestic violence survivors,” explains Kristen McClure, festival founder. “I am a survivor myself, and my grandmother was also a survivor.”

The lineup includes Senora May, Bee Taylor, Mama Said String Band, Possum Queens, and many more. The festival also features family-friendly activities for kids of all ages.

“It’s super important to me that my children, they’re 8 and 10, are surrounded by this sort of atmosphere where women are empowered,” shares Kristen. “The festival encourages kids to be strong and understand their place on this earth and what it means to be a good person.”

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Workshops will be offered on music and writing. Local women artisans, vendors, and food trucks will join the event, and a silent auction will raise funds for our mission.

Alyssa, an advocate on our staff, hosted an informational table at last year’s event. “The festival was a safe and comfortable space for people to ask for resources and share their stories, experiences, hopes, and dreams,” she shares. “This year, we plan to bring more advocates, more resources, and our brand-new loom to create a community art project.”

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HollerGirl takes place August 11 – 13 at Rockcastle Riverside in Livingston, KY. Tickets include tent and car camping for the weekend. Find all the details and purchase tickets on their website – HollerGirl.live

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Endow Kentucky Tax Credit Opens Soon!

The Endow Kentucky Tax Credit can support survivors and offers a great tax incentive.

Endow Kentucky Tax Credit season is quickly approaching! Tax credits totaling $1 million will become available on July 1. But these tax credits are often gone in the first week, so now is the time to start planning!  

Individuals and businesses can receive a credit on Kentucky state taxes of up to 20% of a gift to our endowed fund held at Blue Grass Community Foundation. The credit is in addition to your federal and state charitable tax deduction. 

Is there a minimum or maximum gift amount for the tax credit?  

There is no minimum gift size required to receive the tax credit. Unlike tax deductions, tax credits are subtracted from a donor’s tax bill, dollar for dollar. A gift of $5,000 can reduce what you owe in state taxes by $1,000. A gift of $50,000 can reduce your tax bill by $10,000. The maximum gift amount is $50,000.  

Not itemizing your charitable donations this year?  

You can likely still take advantage of the Endow Kentucky Tax Credit. This is a state tax credit, not a deduction. A tax credit reduces your Kentucky state tax liability dollar-for-dollar, regardless of your ability to itemize.   

Are donations of non-cash assets eligible for the tax credit? 

Yes, here is the list of non-cash assets that could be eligible:

  • stocks, 
  • mutual funds, 
  • tangible property, 
  • donations of life insurance, and 
  • donors 70 ½ and older can make a qualified charitable distribution from qualifying IRAs (QCDs can be made to any endowed funds other than donor advised funds).  
How do I make an endowment gift eligible for the credit? 
  1. The first step is to complete the Application for Preliminary Authorization.
  2. The completed form should be mailed or emailed to the Kentucky Department of Revenue in Frankfort. Addresses are included in the application, but if you’d rather just drop it off at the Blue Grass Community Foundation office, they’ll mail it for you.
  3. Next steps and additional resources, including contacts at the Blue Grass Community Foundation, are linked at the bottom of this page. 
How can I learn more about your endowment? 

Send a note to Corissa Phillips, Certified Fund Raising Executive on staff. She looks forward to sharing more about how our permanent endowment supports the mission in perpetuity–through times of crisis and opportunity. 

This post was written with information provided by the Blue Grass Community Foundation. We always encourage you to consult your accountant or professional advisor to learn about the personal impact of receiving your tax credit.

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Let’s Talk About Septic Systems

We never expected to type these five words on our blog. Let’s talk about septic systems. 

Septic systems aren’t top of mind when you think about our mission. But the disposal of septic waste is critically important to any home or facility, especially an emergency shelter with 42 adult and child residents each night. 

Our large 19,326-square-foot shelter facility requires two septic systems.

Waste from the shelter is pumped into two tanks, each connected to a separate leach bed. These leach beds are formed by hundreds of feet of underground perforated pipe meandering through our front lawn. Liquid waste seeps through holes in the pipes to be naturally filtered by the soil.   

Something’s not right 

The standard lifecycle for a septic system is about 25 to 30 years. Our systems were built during the facility’s original construction 25 years ago.  

During the pandemic response, we noticed slow drainage from shelter sinks, showers, tubs, and toilets. The grass on the property’s front lawn felt a little mushy, even though it hadn’t rained for days. From time to time, when the weather was just right, a faint unpleasant smell would blow across the shelter’s front porch. 

It was time to call in the professionals.  

Inspection of shelter’s septic systems found our tanks in good condition, but an expedited need for replacing the septic system’s aged leach lines was identified. The cost to replace the leach lines was estimated to be more than $60,000.
 

One-time opportunity 

Although our annual operating budget includes funds for emergency repairs at the shelter, we had not anticipated the need for such a large-scale project during the pandemic response. 

Just weeks later, there was a possible solution.  

The City of Lexington announced a call for proposals from the community’s nonprofit organizations for one-time capital investment grants to be funded by the American Rescue Plan Act (ARPA).  We began to prepare our application in haste, learning more than we could’ve imagined about septic systems and leach fields.  

It’s more interesting than one might think! Did you know good bacteria in septic tanks feast on solid waste, breaking them down through digestion into gases? 


Award notification 

Following the city’s review of 138 project proposals, we received notification of funding to support the full cost of our leach line replacement project.  

We had to wait a few months for the weather and ground to warm after winter, but the project begins today! Crews are onsite to replace 1600 total feet of leach lines to better dispose of liquid and solid waste generated at our emergency shelter. 

More than 20 social service agencies in Fayette County are making much needed facility renovations, improving accessibility to facilities for those with disabilities, and more with support from the city’s ARPA funds. 

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Evolving Terminology – Intimate Partner Abuse

Intimate partner abuse has been called many things over the years.

From battered women to domestic violence, as the understanding of intimate partner abuse has evolved, so has the terminology used to describe it.  

Changing Terminology 

The phrase domestic violence gained wider recognition in the 1970s with the Battered Women’s Movement, or Domestic Violence Movement.  

Historically the term domestic violence implied: 

  • Physical violence 
  • Violence against women in heterosexual relationships 
  • Residing in the same home 
  • Domestic issue 

The legal definition of domestic violence or domestic abuse includes intimate partners but can also refer to family violence, such as violence between siblings or abuse of an elderly parent. 

We know intimate partner abuse can happen in any type of relationship regardless of gender, age, or gender identity. It can be more than just violence, including emotional and financial abuse. 

Our Terminology 

As an organization, we prefer to use the term ‘intimate partner abuse.’ This distinguishes the focus of our mission and avoids historic assumptions common to the term domestic violence.  

Use of the word “abuse” rather than “violence” conveys that one person made the decision to harm another person. 

Academic research and many who advocate for survivors often use the abbreviation IPV for intimate partner violence. But our mission is still a topic that isn’t talked about publicly, and too often is still considered a private matter.  

We say the words because they need to be heard, considered, and talked about. 

Call us anytime.

24-HOUR HOTLINE 800.544.2022

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History of LUNAFEST Lexington

The national LUNAFEST is coming to an end so we’re bringing the event to Lexington one last time!  

To celebrate the past fourteen years of hosting the traveling film festival in Lexington, we’re reflecting on past events. 

LUNAFEST Lexington has raised more than $100,000 to support services for survivors of intimate partner abuse over the years. 

2008 -2009 

LUNAFEST Lexington was held at Talon Winery for the first two years. 

Volunteers Geni Osborn, Pam Holbrook, and staff member Kris Bondarenko, who was an AmeriCorps VISTA at the time, organized the event. 

Kris says, “We still go every year as a family. My son is a film graduate now. I love that the films focus on women’s issues.” 

Judge Lucinda Masterton, then a member of our Board of Directors, purchased the first table of tickets to the event in 2007. 

Helue Shalash, owner of Bak 4 More Salon, began her 10+ years of support for the event. 

2010 – 2012 

The event moved to its longtime home at the Kentucky Theatre, and Dr. Nick Kouns became Marquee Sponsor.  

2013 – 2019 

Raymond James & Associates pledged Marquee Sponsor support for the next several years.  

In addition to the event at Kentucky Theatre, a special second showing was held for students at Transylvania University in 2014. 

Gray Construction hosted a pre-event reception at their downtown office in 2015 for guests to eat and mingle before the show. 

2020 – 2021 

The pandemic required some change during these years. 

As social distancing began to be the norm, we transitioned the event to a virtual approach– LUNAFEST Lexington Safe at Home. Macy’s was our Box Office sponsor. 

After more than a year of social distancing, the world had become weary of virtual events. So, the decision was made to take a break and not hold an event the second year of the pandemic. 

2022 

LUNAFEST Lexington returned in person to the Kentucky Theatre as vaccinations became available and positive cases waned.  

2023 

We received notice from LUNA, the national organizer of the traveling film festival, that the current season would be cut short as the company reconsidered how they could best support women’s issues in the coming years.  

To celebrate our community’s longtime support for the event, we decided to bring the films to Lexington one more time. Although the Kentucky Theatre wasn’t available before the film festival season ends, we are proud to be partnering with the Lyric Theatre and Cultural Arts Center for the last LUNAFEST Lexington on Friday, June 2. 

Geni, a volunteer planner of the first events says, “LUNAFEST Lexington is a great opportunity to support the individuals in our community who benefit from a safe, nurturing place to rebuild their souls and find their inner strengths to chart a new, healthier path for their families. This film festival provides an opportunity to experience fun and thought-provoking short films by and about women. 

This year’s seven short films cover a variety of thought-provoking topics. You’ll laugh, cry, and be inspired. A wonderful night out with friends! 

Films recommended for ages 13+ 

Hope you’ll join us to celebrate the event’s long history of supporting survivors in our community. 

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Admission is free, but registration is required.

Brought to you by LUNA, maker of the whole-nutrition bar for women.

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Retail Partners

Handmade by Survivors products ship to destinations from coast to coast, but our retail partners in Kentucky help promote local sales and mission awareness.

Wild Birds Unlimited in Lexington brings people and nature together, and the store has sold our products for several years.

“The customers love the products. The fact that they’re all natural and handmade fits right into what we do here,” explains Nic Patton, manager. “It’s easy to order, and they usually deliver really quick, which is nice right now with the long lead time for other products.”

Eve Guilbault with Origin Hotel is proud to support both our flower and handmade product enterprises. The hotel is a Summer Flower CSA pickup location and often features flowers from the farm in their restaurant.

“Now, we carry their handmade soaps, bath salts, and lip balms,” she shares. “That way our guests can take home a little piece of GreenHouse17.”

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Community Care

Although the work to end intimate partner abuse always will be difficult, safer tomorrows are possible in a community that cares about survivors.

Thank you to the Hillenmeyer Christmas Shop for donating a tree to shelter each year.

The International ‘We Serve’ Foundation hosted a holiday party at the shelter that provided food and a gift to each resident.

Hamburg Pavilion hosted a variety of free community holiday events including a toy drive for families receiving housing services.

Our community went above and beyond donating gifts for the Holiday Gift Drive!

Thank you to everyone who participated in a charity ride at CYCLEBAR which raised $650.

Broomwagon hosted Cranksgiving – a challenge where bicyclists rode to stores to see who could bring back the most donations for survivors.

Thank you to everyone who made a gift during the GoodGiving Challenge!

The Winchester Elks Lodge supported survivors by hosting a breakfast fundraiser that raised over $2,000.

Lexington’s new campaign – It’s Time – brings awareness to domestic violence with support from community leaders.

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DV8 Kitchen Table Art Contest

We are excited to be participating in the Table Art Contest at DV8 Kitchen on Broadway! Your vote for our table could help us win up to $1500 to support services for survivors.

Eleven central Kentucky nonprofit organizations have partnered with local artists to create art directly on dining room tables at DV8 Kitchen on Broadway in Lexington. Videos from each participating organization are posted on social media, and every “like” on each video counts as a vote for that table.

Kristin Carpenter, an artist on our staff, imagined and painted the beautiful table featuring our mission. She and Reena Martin, our Community Engagement Manager, were interviewed about the meaning behind our table’s design.

Follow this link to the DV8 Facebook Page to like our vido and cast your vote for our table.

While you’re there, be sure to check out other videos featuring the tables and missions of these amazing sobriety organizations in the nonprofit community:

  • Hope Center / Anonymous
  • NAMI / Julie Joseph
  • Chrysalis House / Destinee Austin
  • Voices of Hope / Yolanda Kennison
  • KORE / Dawna Scripps
  • Natalie’s Sisters / Landrie Nickell
  • Shepherd’s House / Michael Harper
  • OWL / Jennifer Bacon
  • Grin Grant / Melody Jackson
  • New Vista / Keaton Young

Winners of the contest will be announced during a special event on April 26 from 5:30 – 8:30 pm at the DV8 Kitchen Broadway location. The restaurant will be open to the public, offering its full menu for dinner and live music. The event is supported by CHI Saint Joseph Health, Truist and LexArts.

Follow this link to cast your vote!

The link above will take you to our video on the DV8 Facebook page.

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